Society

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" Society ".....this so called word is what we are hearing since the moment we are born. Our guardian always taught us ' Don't do this, what society will think of you ? ' , ' Don't wear this..society won't like it ' , ' Get good marks or society won't respect you ' , ' Don't choose it as your career..you will able to match  our society ', ' Don't marry him..society won't accept it '...Like really...Does society even care ? Can society live my life ? My situation ? My dreams ? My thoughts ? Who just asked " Society " to judge me...who gave it that permission to interfere in my life ?

Society was not born by itself..we. the people made it. It is not something different .It is made from each of us. It is what we made it. Everyone is given one life and no one wants society to rule it. On the other hand, we still judge each other and directly or indirectly interfere in each others life. Happiness , joy , freedom , laughter , family , friends and love is what complete my life. And from the poorest to the richest can get it. If you get satisfaction by talking to your near ones...do that...if you get satisfaction in meditating...do that..if you get satisfaction in painting...do that..listen to yourself..you have to live with yourself and not others.

Everyone has their own thoughts and experience...some may be conservative...and some may be modern. we can't change everyone's perception at once. But one by one we can. So let's free ourselves and do what makes us experience joy and give satisfaction to us.

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  1. Sahil11 December 2016 at 20:39

    Mirror to society..

    Very well written. Keep it up !!

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  2. Anonymous11 December 2016 at 20:54

    Loved it like anything baby.... I personally loved every single word of this particular blog of urs.. ��what the hell is this society. I too feel......that live ur life in ur own way

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