IS HE REALLY 'MINE' ?



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 Each one of us has someone whom we address with mine...but the point is...does this word really exist ? Is there actually someone who can be called 'mine' for lifetime ? The answer is.........I don't know. People often say that they are 'ours' but once the situation changes...they just vanishes like anything. People don't even think what they are doing for a while and maybe they never realize. They start forgetting all the past and start pretending as if they don't care for some reason. And maybe they actually don't care.  They suddenly change into someone else which are not really ours and start behaving like a stranger. They don't understand anything at that point of time. Well , this is human nature. It is very common in today's generation. Lately this leads to anger and frustration for both the people and they fail to understand what can be done for this. In most of the studies, ego and attitude is being responsible all these issues. But if one has to go through it , he should know when to put his/her ego down to let go things and make the other one realize his/her importance in his life. And if one can live without the other one than there is surely no space for the other person because the place for her/him is not empty. So think wisely you want to be with someone or not. It is about your life and your choice. Just never force someone to be with you as it is said " If someone loves you, let him leave you , if he'll be yours , he'll come back if he doesn't come back , he was never yours. "

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