City of My Thoughts

Picture Courtesy : Google Images     Each one of us has someone whom we address with mine...but the point is...does this word really exist ? Is there actually someone who can be called 'mine' for lifetime ? The answer is.........I don't know. People often say that they are 'ours' but once the situation changes...they just vanishes like anything. People don't even think what they are doing for a while and maybe they never realize. They start forgetting all the past and start pretending as if they don't care for some reason. And maybe they actually don't care.  They suddenly change into someone else which are not really ours and start behaving like a stranger. They don't understand anything at that point of time. Well , this is human nature. It is very common in today's generation. Lately this leads to anger and frustration for both the people and they fail to understand what can be done for this. In most of the studies, ego and attitude i

Time was passing like anything...I could feel every second as it passed. I was able to feel the wind around me , the way water was touching my feet and then running away. I was able to feel noise at the most peaceful place. The noise which was inside me....... Picture courtesy : Google Images Solitude is a state of being isolated or deserted. Some people define it as a disease...but some as intoxication. Fear of solitude or being left alone comes only when you know the feeling of being with someone. Not everyone can feel this , only the people who have had someone for them could feel this. When it comes to fear , each one of us has a fear inside us. A fear of losing someone...a fear of not being getting what is expected , fear of future or fear for not repeating the past, fear for not being loved anymore , the fear of not being needed anymore....and so on. The reasons are endless. But the person who feels it can only express this. One can feel this everywhere , ma

Picture Courtesy : Sharad Anand A few days back....I was going to my college by auto. Soon the auto driver started a conversation with me asking what is the procedure to get admission in my college. I explained him the whole thing and he showed curiosity in it. Later he asked if his son will able to get admission easily like everyone else. I didn't know what to say , but by not breaking his hope , I replied yes off course . Soon he told me that he has sent his wife to Gwalior for studying. He always had a dream of being an educated person but due to certain situations in his house he just could not and had to leave his studies. Now he is working as an auto driver and making efforts  to educate his wife and two children. He was truly an inspiration for me. Although he was uneducated auto driver but his thoughts made him a beautiful and respectful person outside and inside. He taught me that it depends on the thinking of the person that what type of person he is. Some educ

Jaipur which is known to be pink city is the capital of Rajasthan. This place is the one which is famous for almost everything that includes forts, food, culture, tradition and shopping. Picture Courtesy : Google Images Rajasthan's beautiful Pink City Jaipur, was the stronghold of a clan of rulers whose three hill forts and series of palaces in the city are important attractions. Known as the Pink City because of the colour of the stone used exclusively in the walled city, Jaipur's bazaars sell embroidered leather shoes, blue pottery, tie and dye scarves and other exotic wares. Western Rajasthan itself forms a convenient circuit, in the heart of the Thar desert which has shaped its history, lifestyles and architecture.And as having a rich culture and heritage it has many forts which are these days famous attraction place like Hawa Mahal, Nahargarh Fort, Birla Mandir, Amber Fort , Jantar Mantar and ohers. Picture Courtesy : Google Images The ca

Picture Courtesy : Google Images Being an animal lover , I would like to dedicate my this blog to the most loyal animal....that's a dog. There are many people who love dogs and there are many people who do not even like dogs. Being a little partial, today i would like to bring around some facts about dogs. Dog is the most pure form of love. If you love it a little..it will love you infinite. It never demands anything from you. This love is actually selfless.There is a fact that if a family has a pet it will be happier and more active than the family without a pet. Dogs can predict any mishappening like earthquake, death in family , serious sickness and others. Dogs can read your eyes. They can feel aggression, loneliness and playfulness in you. Human-to-dog bonding is just as similar as to mother-to-baby bonding. In some ways dogs may think more like humans than any other animal . They give you the affection and concern like a family member. They are so much protecti

Picture Courtesy : Google Images People often say that they love each other but what exactly a person mean by love ? What type of feeling is love or being loved ? Everyone has his or her own definition of love.  Love is just a four letter word which is complicated in a way. Love is scientifically defined as a basic need by Maslow in Maslow's hierarchy of needs.  It is a need of each and every individual . If one is actually in love, fear and jealousy come along with this feeling. Fear, for not to be left alone and jealousy in the same manner. It is a feeling of belongingness.  When one start feeling for someone, it's not I or me anymore, it becomes 'us' in everything. Love is selfish. Loving is not. Some people say... love is painful. They say this as they think they have experienced this but they don't realize that the world is surrounded by love. Love is not limited to a lover or soulmate but it includes all the people who are connected with you. All

Picture Courtesy : Google Images " Society ".....this so called word is what we are hearing since the moment we are born. Our guardian always taught us ' Don't do this, what society will think of you ? ' , ' Don't wear this..society won't like it ' , ' Get good marks or society won't respect you ' , ' Don't choose it as your career..you will able to match  our society ', ' Don't marry him..society won't accept it '...Like really...Does society even care ? Can society live my life ? My situation ? My dreams ? My thoughts ? Who just asked " Society " to judge me...who gave it that permission to interfere in my life ? Society was not born by itself..we. the people made it. It is not something different .It is made from each of us. It is what we made it. Everyone is given one life and no one wants society to rule it. On the other hand, we still judge each other and directly or indirectly inte